i fear i do not have that dog in me

appropriating male manipulator culture

I went to a gala this weekend, which was a very beautiful grown up affair with lots of New York City creatives and water served in wine glasses, you get it. I always feel a little guilty at these things because the food at these things is always Costco sample sized, and I know it’s meant for us to be elegant, but my parents didn’t immigrate to this coun…